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As a convert and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints for just under 5 years, memories of my 12-year investigation remain relatively fresh in my mind. There are moments and events that are touch-points in my decision to be baptized. Many of these touch-points are the basic tenets of the church, they are truths I had learned in other religions and spiritual experiences that I had, some long before my first meeting the missionaries. One of these primary doctrinal truths is that of progression.
The truth of progression was one that came as no surprise to me, but rather it was a confirming relief and a validation of heavenly logic that was quickly and quite easily verified by the Spirit.
Through scripture and experience, I have learned that progression is not just about becoming like God, it is about a Heavenly Father that wants us to have a fullness of joy, and that fullness of joy is only found in our receiving all that he has, in becoming what He is. Yes, our progre…

To My Friends...from now and from then

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When I say or have ever said - I love you - I mean: I Love YOU!

If I said it once, I meant it forever.

My love does not die, it can be suppressed, ignored and beaten with hate, but underneath that denial, the love lives on.

When I said I love you, I was not saying I love what you do or that I love what you believe, that I love what you have, how you look or even how you treat me to my face or behind my back.

I am saying I love who you are.

Who you are is not the sum of your actions, your actions are mere expressions. Expressions of desires to fulfill, needs to be met, wants to be gotten, but who you are is far greater than any of those.

I have known you very intimately, you have known me, we have shared a great deal, in that sharing I have come to know and love your heart.

Hearing one another's pain, sharing our struggles, supporting one another in joy and sorrow, through the pain and often in pleasure - I came to know you, the person behind the expressions, actions and beliefs -…

The Justice and Mercy Within

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Believer or not, we all have a sense of Justice and Mercy. I have yet to meet a child that has not said "That is not fair" nor is there a parent that has not responded "Life is not fair". From a very early age we have an inate sense that life is intended to be just.

When I reflect on where I am in my spiritual journey, I often recall a time many years ago when I got on my knees in prayer, angry and confused saying something like:

"God, I know you are there. I need you, I want you in my life but I do not believe that you are the judgmental and damning god as so many say you are, and if you are - I will not follow you. I want a relationship with you and I believe that you want a relationship with me. I throw away all the dogma I have learned and seek a relationship with you. A one on one relationship between you and I - let's start over."

This was one of the most uncomfortable prayers I have yet to pray but it was also one of the most genuine. I told G…

56, 25, 4 Marking Time

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For me, July is a month of marking and celebrating the passage of time. My birth date is July 5th, 1962. I was baptized as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints on July 5th, 2014. My Narcotics Anonymous 'clean date' is July 6th, 1993 and I was confirmed a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints July 6th, 2014.

Since I have been very young, birthdays have been emotionally awkward for me. There has always been this odd mixture of desiring attention and recoiling from it at the same time. There have been periods in my past where I received many cards, presents and hundreds of Happy Birthday Facebook wishes. In my recent life, the acknowledgments of my birthday are few and far between. I do not post my birth date on Facebook and it has become a rare thing for friends to track the birth dates of others outside of Facebook. 
The experience of being relatively anonymous on my birthday is one that, like many of my experiences in the past few ye…

Ministering is Love

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(Talk given 5/27/18 18th Ward Salt Lake Ensign Stake)

It is a privilege to be with you on this sabbath day as we have renewed our baptismal covenants. My name is Stephan Adelson and m home Ward is the Canyon Road Ward, I am currently serving an Inner-City Mission in the 13th Ward here in the Ensign stake.

I am relatively new to both the area and the church. In just over a month I will have been a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day saints for four years. I came to Salt Lake City in October of 2016. Leaving Boston and moving here was never part of my life plan, but as God wills and we listen, mighty and often surprising miracles can be brought into our lives.

It was actually in this Ward, two years ago, almost to the day, that I learned from the Spirit that Salt Lake City was to be my new home. As irrational and unsettling as a move west sounded and felt, within 24 hours of being here I received dramatic confirmation and I knew, without doubt that I was to come to Zion.…

Success

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As of this January I have been in the Inner-City Mission for one year. Anniversaries are a great opportunity to review the past year and plan for the next. Over the past year I have often been surprised, frustrated, inspired and challenged.

Having been a sponsor to many addicts in recovery over the past 25 years I have learned a great deal about what it means to be of help and what it means to cause harm through attempts to be 'helpful'. I have made many mistakes along the way through well meaning actions, intended to help but misguided by a lack of understanding what the true nature of help is. Some of my helpful actions have caused more harm than good to the person I desired to help.

I have come to realize that the actions that caused harm were actions that were based in me attempting to solve someone else's problem. Often the negative results of my efforts to help came when I was taking responsibility that was not mine for another persons actions, trying to solve a pro…

The Act of Love

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If there were a theme for my experiences in 2017 the theme would be love.

I remember when I became a Christian and joined The Assembly of God in 1978, I learned about the three types of love mentioned in the bible; according to the Greek language they are: Eros (desire and longing), Philos (the love in friendship) and Agape (divine love or the pure love of Christ). According to the book Colours of Love, J.A. Lee 1973 there are seven types of love that are loosely based on classical readings, especially those of Plato and Aristotle.

The English language is much more limited, we have just one word to express the many 'types' of love we experience. When I look back on my life and think of the many people who have said "I love you' to me, I am often left wondering what they meant, what they felt and why they said 'I love you'. Of course the same is true for me, I have said 'I love you" to more people then I can remember. When I said 'I love you' …